Parenting a Teen or Young-Adult with BPD
Parenting in general is not easy. Parenting teenagers is beyond difficult. Parentings teenagers and young adults who have BPD is one of the most challenging roles of a lifetime. Teens and young adults want freedom, power and control no matter what emotional disturbances they face, and this is often the root of what parents who love them struggle with the most. How in the world do parents know what limits to set when their daughter or son is driven by emotion and acting in impulsive ways? Parents want their children to be happy, but also safe.
The guidelines adapted by the Borderline Personality Disorder National Education Alliance offer some wonderfully wise suggestions and ideas in parenting those with BPD. The more understanding parents have of BPD, the more likely they will be able to communicate effectively with and set realistic expectations and limits with their teen and young adult children with BPD. This website is an overall great resource for parents, family and loved ones of those with BPD, so I encourage you to check it out.
http://www.borderlinepersonalitydisorder.com/family-connections/family-guidelines/